First, read through any of the FAQs that may apply to your situation.
Second, call or send us a message and we can discuss the specifics with you.
We can help by talking with the birthparents and try to clarify and resolve the concerns.
Third, We can also explain other options that are needed. There may be extreme times when we may need to limit her ability to post or respond to your posts either temporarily or permanently. Obviously, this is something we want to avoid but it happens.
Remember, if you are struggling with problems, it is likely others have dealt with similar problems. We can learn from each other.
The ultimate goal is to have a long-term healthy relationship. That can be ruined by some problems but if those problems can be resolved it can help the relationship in the long run.